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Is It Ok To Fantasize About Someone Else While Having SEX With Your Significant Other???

Posted by Media Outrage on February 12, 2010

Let us repeat:

Is it alright to fantasize and imagine yourself participating in sexual acts with another person while getting it in with your significant other???

Have at it MO readers….

66 Responses to “Is It Ok To Fantasize About Someone Else While Having SEX With Your Significant Other???”

  1. Ms. Behave™ said

    That is just Trifling!!!!!!!

    If im THINKING of someone else, i might as well SEX someone else!

    You can start off thinking of someone else to get the mood going, but best believe when im done you should be thinking of ME! Or else you’ll get shot – Twice!

  2. I think its stupid to do that. Why??!!? As A man his focus and concentration should be on making this woman hollar like a hoodrat with a winning lottery ticket, not thinking about lovemaking to a celeb or that whore at your job!

    My focus and concentration is her ass cheeks shivering and screaming for Jesus, then aim the straight pipe and writing The Constitution on her forehead, not some other chick!

  3. mAc said

    It’s nothing wrong with me imagining Halle Berry from “Swordfish” blowing my top while my girl’s sucking my dick. It just makes the experience all the more intensifying and electric when I blow a thick ass load on her face. Ahh! Real love.

  4. MO…did yall steal this straight from my tweets last night?

    I don’t find it wrong on my part if you ain’t hitting it good enough that I have to think of someone else to get me going, get me off and put me to bed.

    And no I wouldnt take offense if dude was thinking of someone else…that just means I need to do something more to get him where he needs to be. But he best not scream the bitches name during the act (although I’m guilty of doing that) ::kanye shrug::

    • Media Outrage said

      No Danibabygurl we don’t believe in STEALING – we CHRISTIANS up in here. lol

      • MaliaMalia LOVES MO said

        lol @ christians lol….

      • Ms. Behave™ said

        Why did i just remember ‘christian’ when you said that lol remember him?… You spread the gospel on his ass🙂 Man, it was beautiful the way you quote those scriptures, i was in tears lol, i was like you guyz were in tongues- asmdbknsefdjksdbndjindkjdn, hahahaha.

      • ROFL @ “we CHRISTIANS up in here.”

        And C’mon people…I highly doubt I’m the only one who has done thought of someone else during the act.

      • Ms. Behave™ said

        Yes Dani… *in my Maury voice* You ARE alone, hahaha.

      • YEAH I SAID IT said

        LMAO!!!! Christian my ass.MO you show the most tits and ass pic i have seen on the net!

  5. Kingston said

    No it’s not ok. How can you enjoy doing the do with your SO, while you’re thinking about having sex and doing all types of freaky shit with someone else. I’m not with that, and if I get to the point in my relationship where I have to fantasize about someone else while he’s putting it down, then we need to have a talk.

  6. Random said

    That’s insulting..might as well go and fck someone else!

  7. Lai' Lani said

    I have done it before but do not think it is ok. I sure nuff wouldn’t want my man thinking of some other woman while he’s giving me the best I’ve ever had.

  8. Lai' Lani said

    And if he told me that he thought about another chick while doing the do with me and it was really great sex, then I would start to wonder how often he is fantasizing about another woman while with me. Not a good look.

  9. Marathon_Man said

    back when i had a girl I used to think of this spanish piece that used to make me go crazy.

    I only did that a few times.

  10. Hovy's Home said

    Naw not cool. 2 words: MAD DISRESPECTFUL

  11. BadBadKitty0727 said

    The REAL question is, would you TELL him/her that you were thinking about (insert name here) while having sex?

  12. Cut Up said

    Hmmm, Good Question. I don’t think it is cool, why be with the person you with if you have to think of someone else to get you off or stimulate your mind enough to perform. What’s even better is when you have been in a situation where you might have had to do that and then find someone who turns you on totally where it is furthest thing from your mind.

    Having been in both situations in my lifetime, I love the one where you are totally fullfilled by the one you are with.

    • MaliaMalia LOVES MO said

      aww sweet!!! @ I love the one where you are totally fullfilled by the one you are with.

      I definitely feel you on that one cut up!! so true too…

    • Ms. Behave™ said

      “I love the one where you are totally fullfilled by the one you are with.” …Shoot, 2020, said something very similar this morn’. MMO, I LOVE the crop of young men you have on this site, there is hope for us women after all🙂

      Cut-up, that was beautiful, had you been born in the 16th century, ou would’ve given shakespeare a run for his money *blushing* If ever you need anything to ‘cut up’, i’ve got a board you can slice on😉

      • MaliaMalia LOVES MO said

        lol @ If ever you need anything to ‘cut up’, i’ve got a board you can slice on….Ms. Behave are so bloody sweet and crazy at the same time…love ya!!! hahahaha

      • MaliaMalia LOVES MO said

        lol @ If ever you need anything to ‘cut up’, i’ve got a board you can slice on….

        *Ms. Behave you are so bloody sweet and crazy at the same time…love ya!!! hahahaha

    • YEAH I SAID IT said

      True that Cut Up! I mean who has time to think of someone else, when you doing the do and in the moment???? WTF type of shit is that????

  13. Ms. Behave™ said

    MO, i know you love sex and all but where are the BLACK HISTORY POST, it’s February you know- OUR month!

    HAPPY BLACK HISTORY MONTH PEOPLE!

    BLACK HISTORY POST MO (please repost).

    • Media Outrage said

      LOL we love you Ms Behave. Really do.

      LOL. With that said, we will come with some Black History posts but do really feel that every month is Black History and try not to get caught up in what society portions off to US as the month in which our many accomplishments and contributions should be RECOGNIZED.

      That is why you haven’t seen MO lit up with Black History Month posts thus far in February. They’re coming though and we will keep them coming all year round. Love yall.

      • Ms. Behave™ said

        *Blushing* @ LOL we love you Ms Behave. Really do. (printing as we speak, soon to be laminated lol, heck i might just make a billboard lol)… Seeing as though i got distracted, gone to read REST of post lol.

      • BadBadKitty0727 said

        PREACH M.O.! “Black History Month” is every damn day! I bet you EVERY person on the CONTINENT uses something daily that an African-American created or had input on.

      • Media Outrage said

        LOL lol you’re funny.

      • Ms. Behave™ said

        Ok, Now that i’ve read rest…

        I get your point, same here, EVERY DAY IS BLACK HISTORY DAY!!! But, when there is a time set to celebrate i think it’s only fitting, just like your birthday. Personally i celebrate ME, EVERYDAY, but when that day comes, i atleast ACKNOWLEDGE it. If you don’t want to do mutiple post that’s fine, but atleast one dedicated to that purpose, preferably in THIS month, that we can use to highlight POSITIVES about us, we DESERVE IT!

  14. mAc said

    So if this is wrong then is watching PORN wrong when you’re in a relationship? You’re still fantasizing about fukin Pinky or whatever phat azz is bent over in the video.

    DT help me out here!

    • yes, true, but you are suppose to take that fantasy on your lover and make her the New and Improved Pinky or Jada Fire…. not to invision them!

      When Im watching a good fuck flick I get inspired and motivated to go upstairs and stab her guts like a Gladiator in the Roman empire!

    • I cosign w/ u Mac. Nothings wrong w/ watching porn with or without ur mate. And nothings wrong w/ thinking of someone else during sex. It’s your significant other’s fault if they’re not keeping you focused.

      • mAc said

        Exactly. I aint gone front im addicted to getting my cock (had a white boy moment) sucked like 2 or 3 times a day. Shit my girl gets angry if she sees me watching too much porn and im like “I just tried to put my penis in your mouth and you acted like you got your shit wired in a street brawl” so i’ll just sit here and beat this big ass dick to Pinky, Julia Bonds, all of the Bang Buses…

      • Lai' Lani said

        LMBAO! @ Shit my girl gets angry if she sees me watching too much porn and im like “I just tried to put my penis in your mouth and you acted like you got your shit wired in a street brawl”

        Boy you got some issues lol

      • Ms. Behave™ said

        LOl @ im addicted to getting my cock suck (had a white boy moment), haha.

      • mAc said

        real talk. my lady went 5 days without puttin her mouth on this thing like a year ago and i almost cheated. I was distracted at work. Every female co-worker that ran convo with me all i did was stare at their lips and they was asking me was i alright and i wasn’t. I just wanted to tell them that i wasn’t getting the pipe sucked at home so they would show a nigga some sympathy and take me in the bathroom and gag on my shit.

      • Victoria K said

        mAc you are hilarious. Do you have any morals? lol

      • MaliaMalia LOVES MO said

        @ Victoria lol i don’t think he does lol

      • mAc said

        Victoria i’m being honest, i thought women loved honesty. Any man that says he doesn’t think about getting his cock sucked everyday is probably

        1. a Pastor – so he can’t say it
        2. your dad- so he shouldn’t say it
        3. your brother- he doesn’t want you to become a hoe
        4. your son- he might get the shit beat out of him for saying it

        but mAc says that shit. I tell my girl all the time what i like and what i need so she will know and knowing is HALF the battle. The other half is her deepthroating my shit like it was one big Krispy Kreme DONUT.

        I eat the pussy every night and day. I love doing it and making her eyes roll up in her head while imagining she was her SISTER lol lol lol

      • Victoria K said

        wow… lmao!!!!!!!

      • Yasmine T. said

        mAc are you a specialist at licking the clit?

        *Forgot to splash on my Holy Water*

      • Ms. Behave™ said

        LOL @ Any man that says he doesn’t think about getting his cock sucked everyday is probably:

        1. a Pastor – so he can’t say it
        2. your dad- so he shouldn’t say it
        3. your brother- he doesn’t want you to become a hoe
        4. your son- he might get the shit beat out of him for saying it

        So, you eat p*ssy like a big MAc *rolling* hahaha.

      • Lilly said

        @ mAc – Does your girlfriend read MO and does she know your username? LMAO

      • Mac…..I cosign with you, but may I add it works the same way with females. If neither party is getting the desired sex or freakiness they need…..distraction first, withdrawal second, cheating third. That is the sequence.

        I had an ex who would go a month w/o sex and I was doing everything in my power to not sleep w/ each and every one of his friends when we were left alone. Needless to say….we are not together anymore. ::side eye::

  15. ucanb2 said

    HMMMM… Interesting, I must confess that back in my younger days I did that. ((Tears)) I am better now.

  16. monique said

    yes….i do it all the time…..hubby dosent make me feel right until i start fantasizing…..im sorry im sure he does the same thing

    • Wow ! said

      Oh yeah! Sorry 2 hear that baby! It’s crazy because married men must take care of home… The thought of some other TARZAN making u feel like Jane would prolly crush him. Every time I get with wifey I give that vagina a concussion!!!

  17. Truly23 said

    He better keep it in his head if he is….

    • MissTX said

      Exactly Truly! If he is, I better not find out. And if I am, he ain’t gone find out. But if it’s a continuous thing, then yeah it’d be time for a talk.

  18. CaramelKiss said

    I got have my daily dose of Ms. Behave, YISI, DT, Mac, MaliaMalia, MissTX85 and I can’t forget LowRidaz…y’all just make sista bust a gut on tha regular. Thank you all.

  19. Sapphire Storm said

    I can’t think of a situation where it would be justifiable. There’s so many other things you could do if things became monotonous. That’s why they have role playing, costumes, and mardi gras masks. In most cases, my guy looked so good doing what he was doing, I didn’t want to even imagine he was someone else.

  20. meka said

    Well I figure as long as the “deed” is done to the others’ satisfaction, who cares who you have to fantasize about to get it done. I do it all the time and my boyfriend doesn’t know. I do a good job either way. especially when I don’t feel like it. I just try to keep him satisfied.

  21. Lilly said

    Nothing wrong with it. I’ve done it several times. As long as i climax and don’t physically touch another man, then why not?

    • Wow ! said

      O yeah! Sounds like ur man ain’t taming that kitty cat? This is why a man has to mix a lil aggressive sex with love making. Guys can’t just be romeo or they end up gettin played! It’s nothing like blowin a dame’s back out!

  22. Lilly said

    What i really think is more disturbing and out-of-pocket, is having an emotional connection to someone else when you’re involved.

  23. 2020VIZN said

    I have never done any shit like that. If it grows and grows for you, I cant think about shit but giving it to YOU! I got other shit to think about, like watching how the eyes get locked up in your head and the eye lids flutter, or the random shaking of your legs, or why she just slapped me, or why she putting holes in my body with her nails, whats the next position to put you in. Oh, and trying to remember that she is not pissing on me, she is just a squirter. Now with all that going on, how in the fuck do I think about someone else?!?!?!? When I giving it to YOU, Im GIVING IT TO YOU!!! If I gott think about another woman, then I prolly should go get it in with her because im sure it will be better, no need to shortchange myself and deceive you in the process…why? So to the two ladies that I have ever had relations with, I was thinking about giving it to YOU when I was giving it to YOU..Lol

  24. aniyaqt said

    he kim gar

  25. aniyaqt said

    i dont. believe that

  26. So WhAt? said

    Hey not be rude or nothing to the men but women do it more often then we will ever admit as im sure do the men our bodys feel horny when we see something new and exciting so when I been with someone for two years yeah orlando bloom might pop into the picture once and a while LMFO he he🙂 But he will never know!

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